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Be a Selfish Person
Everyone despises a selfish person; it’s one of those lessons we learn early in life. But how does one go about being unselfish? Is it possible, or even desirable to be completely unselfish? If not, then what constitues a healthy amount of selfishness?
The Give All
Let’s begin by trying to construct the perfectly selfless person. This person goes out of their way to help others, always putting others’ needs above their own. Everybody knows … Read entire article »
Filed under: Ethics, God, Relationships
Women Want a Real Man, But What Does That Mean?
This is a response to some of the “women want real men” kind of material out there, and to the controversy my friend Linda Christensen stirred up in this blog post.
So you want a man who’s in control? Who takes the lead? Then STFU about wanting a man who leads. How’s that for being in control? Not what you were expecting? Not what you wanted? Well too bad. Wanting somebody else in control means … Read entire article »
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Scientists Are Not Human
“Most scientists today subscribe to a mechanistic view of the mind. We’re the way we are because our brains are wired up in the way that they are…But we scientists are inconsistent. If we were consistent, our response to a misbehaving person like a child murderer should be something like, ‘This unit has a faulty component, it needs repairing.'” That’s not what we say. What we say is, ‘vile monster, prison is … Read entire article »
Filed under: God, Intelligence, Love, Relationships, Religion
How Far Should You Go On a First Date: Your Get Out of Jail Free Card
First, let’s address the guys…done.
Now it’s the girls’ turn (guys, don’t neglect your girl’s turn). Somehow, I have a feeling it’ll be slightly more complicated…
First date definitely a hug goodnight to weed out the dick heads who just want you for your looks. It’s like a test to see who’s serious and wants a real relationship with a future.
I found the above comment on a forum about this topic. It’s a popular … Read entire article »
Filed under: Love, Relationships, Sex
Pre-roll Ads: A Real Throatjob
The doorbell rings. It’s your first date, and the first time you’re seeing him since he accidentally stabbed you with his lightsaber at the Star Wars convention where you met. You check your lipstick in the hall mirror one last time and open the door with a pleasant smile while trying not to appear too eager. He smiles back, then whips out his hard cock, grabs you by the hair, and rams … Read entire article »
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How to Be a Better Listener: The Principles of Listening
Being a good listener is somewhat of an art. Bunny ears help, but barring that, we can distill it down to 4 principles.
Principle 1 — Silence
If you’re talking, how are you listening?
Don’t interrupt. If you don’t know a word the speaker used, or you were unable to hear part of a sentence because your religious neighbours keep yelling “Oh, God!”, then it’s fine to ask for a clarification.
Silence the chatter in your mind … Read entire article »
Filed under: Life, Relationships
Always Give a Second Chance to Make a First Impression
Everybody knows that you never get a second chance to make a first impression. But we never hear the counterpart adage, which I think is more important:
Always give a second chance to make a first impression.
There are so many reasons that people may give off a bad first impression, including:
Nervousness
Shyness
Insecurity
Cultural differences
They just had a bad day
Unforeseen circumstances (e.g. Your partner’s parents are over for dinner, and the “toy box” falls out of … Read entire article »
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Women Seeking Nice Guys Finish Last
Hi, I’m just looking for a nice, normal guy who’s romantic and down to earth…
Blah fucking blah. No you’re not! Let me do you a favour here and set you straight.
History
You’ve dated a bunch of assholes, and now you’re single. Maybe you did date some nice guys, but you got bored of them, and now you’re single.
Wiring
The primitive part of your brain evolved to be attracted to jerks, while … Read entire article »
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